*Edit: I've neglected my blog for a year (can't believe I've had this blog for 10 years now!). This post was written earlier last year, and its been in queue for some time, so I decided to post this for those of you who might be traveling with littles this Spring or Summer break!
Updated tips for traveling with the littles:
On a recent trip I took with my youngest child, I
experienced what turned out to be the most challenging flight I’ve encountered
thus far. My daughter screamed and fussed at the top of her lungs for most of
the plane ride, and then proceeded to vomit all over the both of us on two
separate occasions. Thankfully, the plane ride was only 3.5 hours long, and the
two people seated next to me were nothing but kind and gracious. That trip
taught me that no matter how long the flight might be, or how many children
you’re bringing on the plane, it’s always best to plan ahead and prepare for
the worst-case scenario.
Our next flight included the entire family—my husband found
an amazing deal to Japan, and as daunting as the idea was of flying for 12+
hours with 3 children under 6, we wanted to go badly enough that we followed
through with the idea. There were
definitely unexpected hurdles, but we managed the best we could. Based on this
most recent trip, I have come up with a list of some survival tips and
suggestions that have worked for our family. I’ve made some updates from my
first post on traveling with children. Hopefully this will lessen some of the
fears associated with traveling with little ones!
1. Prepare
for the worst-case scenario, while packing for the best case scenario.
Things happen on the plane that are often
unexpected. Turbulence, delays, faulty electronics, revised seating
arrangements…I’ve realized that as important as it is to pack spare clothing,
diapers and so forth, you don’t want
to over pack. So I’ve narrowed it
down to the main essentials of a spare set of clothing for the younger children,
a handful of diapers, baby Tylenol, snacks, wipes, one electronic device with
educational games/shows, travel activity books and a few small toys (yes, that
is my edited-down version).
2. If
possible, be the last to board the plane.
Contrary to what the airlines may
tell you when they grant families early boarding access, we have found that
waiting until the end to board provides a much better outcome for your
energetic little ones. Our last flight was delayed a few hours, which feels
like an eternity when the flight is already 11+ hours, so anytime the little
ones are not confined to a seat, is the best case scenario for everyone. If you
have little ones in tow, keep your stroller with you until you board. You can
gate check it upon entering the plane, and they will gladly take it back out
for you when you exit the plane.
3. Create
the right environment.
It can be difficult to figure out
when you should be sleeping or being awake during an international flight. So
imagine the confusion our children go through! We typically put the kids down a
couple hours after their meal, especially if it falls close to their naptime or
bedtime schedule at home. This involves turning off all overhead lighting,
electronics, piling up pillows in the nook of the armrest, and cuddling up with
their favorite travel blanket (airline blankets work too, hah). We create a resting area by laying blankets
and pillows on the floor - however, you are required to place them back in
their seats when the seatbelt sign turns on (and no one wants to be that
person). Sometimes we may or may not slip in a tablet of children’s melatonin
if needed (shh), which seems to work better for us than the old fashioned benny.
4. Invest
in extra legroom.
Traveling in a packed plane can
make anyone claustrophobic, but there are small upgrades you can take to make
the flight a comfier for everyone. I’ve said this in the past, but if you plan
on flying international, paying for Economy Plus can make a world of a
difference when you have little ones in tow. We have used the space to lay
another child to sleep, especially when another is a lap child. Typically, all
you would need to do is pay the upgrade for one adult, and the rest of your
family can benefit (but please do your research ahead of time, as each airline
may have different regulations).
5. Sleep
when they sleep.
The good ‘ole saying everyone tells
you after you’ve had a baby applies when traveling internationally. During the
plane ride, we tried to give the kids naps according to when they would
normally sleep, knowing that they may not be able to rest once we arrive. It is
very tempting to stay up and watch movies for hours while your child is down,
but try and rest if you can, because the journey ahead can be grueling, and you
will need all the energy you can possibly get. A happy Mama (or Dada) makes a
world of a difference. Upon arrival, try to limit the duration of naptime to
help adjust to the time zone. And if you are lucky enough to arrive in the
evening, settle in, keep the lights low and get the kids straight to bed.
6. Go
with the flow.
Sure, this might be the last thing on your
mind when traveling with little ones, but you are still on “vacation,” and
there will always be a slew of unexpected events that may occur. Take for
example our 3 year old, who decided it was a good idea to climb down the bunk
bed face forward and landed perfectly onto the edge of the baseboard and into
the ER. All of this happened within moments of us arriving into the hotel.
Thankfully, he ended up being okay after having a few stitches, and was happy
as a clam when we went to see Mickey that same morning. So my point is, the
unexpected will happen, sleep schedules and eating habits will be completely
thrown into a loop, but that is okay. The last thing we need as parents is the
added stress of worrying about things we cannot always control. And the last
thing anyone wants is to be stuck in a hotel room, waiting for their child to
finish napping. Eventually, children will sleep when they’re tired and eat when
they’re hungry, even if it goes against their standard schedule.
7. Spark
wonder.
Prior to going on a trip, we try
and pique the interest of our children (mainly the older ones). We tell them we
will be going on an adventure that might take some time, but will be worth it
once we arrive. For our trip to Japan, we showed them a photo of the flag,
taught them the basic “hello” and “thank you,” and gave them an idea of the
cultural differences and forms of commuting we might expect. We also re-watched
My Neighbor Totoro, because we would
be visiting “The Studio Ghibli Museum” while in Japan. Children can sense our
excitement; so include them in your joy of travel by sharing the little things
you notice around you. Even more so than adults, travel opens their little eyes
to a world of limitless wonder and broadens their perspectives.
Below are photos from our trip to Japan, which I've delayed in posting for almost a year now (better late than never, right?) --
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Sibling love. |
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First day at Disney Sea with this trooper sporting a giant bandaid : P |
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The immaculate Disney "Monorail" |
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Don't be fooled, this child is incredibly dense in weight. |
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Having a blast. |
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Can we talk about the food and snacks at Disney Tokyo?? I could write an entire post devoted to that. |
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Melting down... |
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Bought these light-up sticks from the 99cent store back home to avoid paying quadruple the price here : ) |
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Tokyo Disneyland |
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Making the most of the only blossoms we saw in bloom (Lukey taking full advantage..) |
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A visit to the Ghibli museum, which was well worth the 45 minutes it took Dada to get online. |
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Making friends with the robot from Laputa. |
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A late lunch at the cutest little cafe from 'Kiki's Delivery Service'. |
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When 2/3 of the kiddos are asleep, you head to Tokyo Station for some of the best ramen. |
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McDees for the kiddos before Mama and Dada get sushi : P |
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The server was bewildered at how quickly I was ordering, but you can't take your time when you've got antsy kids! I may have over done it, but we ate all of it. Best part was that it was half the price of what we'd pay here in the states, and twice as fresh! |
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A taste of Paris. |
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The only kid that was willing to pose for me during this trip- we all couldn't get enough of these vending machines. |
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Couldn't handle the amount of cuteness on every corner. |
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A rare empty Subway moment. |
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Harajuku was a bit disappointing- Crowded, full of tourists, and not one person was dressed up!
We must have gone on a bad day. |
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They have some of the best popcorn boxes at Disney, which literally took up my entire luggage space.
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When in Japan, do as the locals do: i.e. matching outfits ^^
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Super jet-lagged when we got home, but everyone slept for days...so that was kind of nice! ^^
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