Thursday, May 16, 2013

Easy DIY Wardrobe Updates

 Old shoes made new- add some Shwing to old tennies 
 Layer two skirts with different textures for a new look
Use an exacto knife or box cutters and tweezers to distress a pair of old jeans
 Add some edge to a strand of pearls with safety pins (inspired by Tom Binns)

Saturday, May 4, 2013

Nor Cal Photo Diary



We spent the last week in Northern California, the part of Cali where I grew up and no longer call "home." There are still many friends and family near and dear to my heart up north, so it's always a nice, low-budget getaway for us. We decided to use our mileage and take the plane this time around. It was Baby J's first plane ride, which was quite exciting (more so for us, since he probably had no idea what was going on). We held our breaths as we ascended until the we descended, and we were quite proud of the lil fella! He fussed a bit here and there from the pressure and boredom, but all in all he was a trooper. First test passed: Baby J is sure to be a world-class traveler in no time! 

Believe it or not, the Hubby and I had never been to Napa Valley, even though we were only an hour away every time we were in San Francisco. Leave it to us in deciding to go after we had a baby. What does one do with a baby in Napa? Take them along for the ride, of course! I promise you, we were both responsible drivers/wannabe-wine-connoisseurs. There were places with 2 for 1 deals, so we took advantage of that. Otherwise, we shared the tastings in order to get a "taste" of the wines. We were probably more excited to try out the restaurants in the area, after hearing so many great things. Now I don't know if it was because we didn't go to the French Laundry (the pricing is outstanding and we cannot bring ourselves to pay for food that ends up elsewhere, if you know what I mean), but I wasn't thoroughly impressed with the food in Napa. For the prices on the menu and the location, I guess I expected more. The best thing I had was the fried chicken and waffles at Boon Fly Cafe. It was the kind of good that leaves you speechlessly munching away at the table until the food is demolished. Napa Valley itself is still a beautiful scenic place, with all the vineyards in St. Helena and Yountville. I'll definitely be back for the wineries next time: wine glass in one hand, fried chicken in the other. 

The rest of the week was spent in SF with loved ones (my Mama's meals are the best!) and visiting the usual places. We also came across an area called Bernal Heights, where we found the most adorable little consignment shop for children, carrying clothing and toys- both new and gently used. The area is so tiny that you could drive right through without ever realizing you were there. The area was littered with small shops and ergo/bjorn-carrying Mamas and Papas (guess we weren't the only ones!). I enjoy finding hidden little gemstones in these large caverns we call cities. 

Before we knew it, the week came to an end and we were back on the plane heading back to smogville, aka SoCal. That's the thing about travel...it's a high while you're there, and once you head home, you plummet downwards back into reality. Okay, I'm exaggerating, it's not that bad, but you get what I mean. I guess that's why we're always shooting away with our camera (some of the photos above were taken by my lil bro- being trigger happy runs in the fam), trying to capture every moment while living in the moment can be a challenge. Photos do tell great stories, but not always the full story.  The back story is usually far from perfect- for example, Baby J nearly had a meltdown after the food arrived while dining at Redd (after his picture-perfect smile), so we nearly scarfed all our food down and left the restaurant before receiving more dirty looks from some of the diners. But for the purpose of sharing and remembering the happier and beautiful moments, the camera does its purpose. And isn't life about finding the silver lining? However, sometimes I wonder, maybe the back story is more interesting...

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Easter Weekend

A beautiful day for Easter photos after service | Brunch at Toast with the ladies in LA | Bebe oogling at a printed dress from Opening Ceremony | Flying Bebe on the loose! }

Easter weekend came and went all in a flash, and we are now already in the month of April, which reminds me I forgot to play an April Fool's prank this year, bah. But seriously, where has the time gone? The start of a new month has reminded me that I'm going onto my 4th month of no shopping (buying myself wearables that is, I've succumbed to window shopping as a form of social and leisure fun- as fun as that gets). A quarter of the year into it and I haven't had the itch to buy a particular item. However, the desire to buy something, almost anything has become the bigger itch. My mind naturally justifies rewarding myself for whatever hard work I've accomplished. I blame it on the gold stickers and prizes I received as a child from parents and teachers for dutifully completing my tasks. 

This had me wondering: Does this mean I desire recognition and rewards rather than focusing on intrinsic motivation? In all honesty, I realize that little rewards are needed to keep us going in life, why else do we work for money? But as we grow up, there needs to be a shift in our values, because money cannot be the only reason. We were created for more than just a paycheck. I've come to realize that when we do what we're truly passionate about, something we feel is making an impact on this world in some way or form, we have the fuel to continue running the rat race.

Now how do we teach children to see it that way?

Either way, I still want a gold star...I suppose some of us never grow up!


Monday, March 11, 2013

Nature vs. City

{Hiking trails at Griffith Park - Toast and coffee from Proof Bakery - Brunch at Square One}

What are your thoughts on "fast fashion?"
{Leather jacket from Ebay, vintage silk blouse, FindersKeepers knit shorts, gifted heels, bag from Zara}

This past weekend was spent once again in Los Angeles. I'd like to think of ourselves as Suburban folks during the week, city by the weekend. Being in the 'burbs too long tends to get me antsy, as I am naturally an extroverted person who enjoys condensed areas lined with little mom n' pop restaurants and shops. 

We spent the morning catching up over brunch with some friends who live in the city - good food and good company always go hand in hand! The combination of the two leaves my stomach and heart feeling satisfied! I also found a bakery that reminded us of the now famous Tartine in SF; even the locals and the surrounding area resembled Mission District! The tiny bakery was packed with people, but the brioche toast with sqirl jam was worth the wait, the coffee...not so much. Sorry LA, you still have some catching up to do in that department!

Since we were near Griffith Park, we put baby in the Ergo and headed over for an impromptu hike (yes, in heels..it's about time we leave hiking gear in the car for these occasions). This was our first time seeing the park side since the last time we visited the observatory a few years back. It was an easy hike with a beautiful smoggy view of the city. LA has been pleasantly surprising me with its scenic views; I used to be a firm believer that only NorCal would provide such natural beauty (always going to be a NorCal girl at heart). We've been hiking more this year than we have last year in total. Much of it is due to the fact that I've been trying to avoid shopping as much as possible to prevent unnecessary temptations- with the exception of window shopping for inspiration and leisure. Connecting with nature always puts things back into perspective and reminds me of how often we sweat the small stuff.

Afterwards, we walked around the little downtown area of Los Feliz, which is full of small vintage shops, cafes and restaurants. It reminded me San Francisco mixed in with a bit of a Euro-vibe. I immediately fell in love with the area and have plans on coming back after a day of (actual) hiking!